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		<title>Mediation in Conflicts Over Animals with Debra Vey Voda-Hamilton</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>EP: 008 Debra Vey Voda-Hamilton Mediation in Conflicts Over Animals Though you may not like your ex all that much, your pet doesn’t harbor the same resentment. Yet our companion animals often get caught in the middle and end up being used as bargaining chips in a divorce settlement that doesn’t serve the people or [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>EP: 008</strong></p>
<h1 style="color: #f16c4f; text-align: center;">Debra Vey Voda-Hamilton</h1>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">Mediation in Conflicts Over Animals</h2>
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<p>Though you may not like your ex all that much, your pet doesn’t harbor the same resentment. Yet our companion animals often get caught in the middle and end up being used as bargaining chips in a divorce settlement that doesn’t serve the people or the pets involved. Rather than taking the fight to court, where pets are viewed as property, mediation serves as a more appropriate alternative—an alternative that allows both parties to be a part of a solution-oriented discussion around conflicts over animals.</p>
<p>Debra Vey Voda-Hamilton is a conflict coach, mediator and principal attorney with Hamilton Law &amp; Mediation, a firm that uses alternative dispute resolution to foster peaceful solutions in conflicts over animals. A pioneer in the field, Debra speaks widely on the top of how mediation techniques can help people address conflicts without litigation, and she has been featured in <em>Forbes</em>, the <em>Wall Street Journal</em>, and <em>US News and World Report</em>, among many other. She is also the author of <em>Nipped in the Bud, Not in the Butt: How to Use Mediation to Resolve Conflicts over Animals</em>.</p>
<p>Today, Debra joins Katherine to discuss the important role companion animals play in our lives and recent court cases involving the ownership of animals. She explains how pets serve as a source of comfort, especially in the aftermath of a difficult separation or divorce. Listen in for insight on how the mediator can help a divorcing couple hear each other ‘for the first time’ and design a custody arrangement that serves the people, the children and the pets involved.</p>
<h3>Topics Covered</h3>
<p>The important role of companion animals in our lives</p>
<p>The judge’s decision in the case of Travis v. Murray</p>
<p>How to recognize that when you’re projecting your feelings on the animal</p>
<p>Why pets are considered property under the law</p>
<p>Why mediators need to ask about pets up front</p>
<p>The benefits of having a companion animal</p>
<p>How to determine what arrangement is in the best interest of the animal</p>
<p>How relationships with pets tend to deepen after a separation or divorce</p>
<p>How pets serve as a source of comfort</p>
<p>The value of mediation in helping parties come to a creative solution</p>
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<li>Hear other party through reflection of mediator</li>
<li>Consider what life looks like without pet</li>
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<p>The cottage industries that provide transportation for pets</p>
<p>The danger of considering ‘who the pet loves more’ in decision-making</p>
<h3>Connect with Debra Vey Voda-Hamilton</h3>
<p><a href="http://hamiltonlawandmediation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Hamilton Law &amp; Mediation</a></p>
<p><a href="https://twitter.com/HLawMediation" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Hamilton Law on Twitter</a></p>
<p>Email <a href="mailto:dhamilton@hamiltonlawandmediation.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">dhamilton@hamiltonlawandmediation.com</a></p>
<p>Call (914) 273-1085</p>
<h3>Resources</h3>
<p><em><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Nipped-Bud-Not-Butt-Mediation/dp/151502024X" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Nipped in the Bud, Not in the Butt: How to Use Mediation to Resolve Conflicts over Animals</a> by Debra Vey Vonda-Hamilton</em></p>
<p><a href="https://www.animallaw.info/case/travis-v-murray" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Travis v. Murray</a></p>
<p><a href="http://hamiltonlawandmediation.com/peacemaking-in-the-dog-wars/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">‘Peacemaking in the Dog Wars’ Blog</a></p>
<h3>Connect with Katherine Miller</h3>
<p><a href="http://understandinginconflict.org/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Center for Understanding Conflict</a></p>
<p><a href="https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Miller Law Group</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Katherine on LinkedIn</a></p>
<p><em><a href="https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce</a> by Katherine Miller</em></p>
<p>Email <a href="mailto:katherine@westchesterfamilylaw.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">katherine@westchesterfamilylaw.com</a></p>
<p>Call (914) 738-7765</p>
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