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					<description><![CDATA[<p>EP: 151 Erik Wheeler Resolve Post-divorce Conflict With Mediation Divorce Dialogues · Resolve Post-divorce Conflict With Mediation with Erik Wheeler Even if you craft the perfect divorce agreement, disputes still arise post-divorce. As circumstances change, conflicts come up. So, what should you do when you and your ex disagree? How might you leverage mediation to [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>EP: 151</strong></p>
<h1 style="color: #f16c4f; text-align: center;">Erik Wheeler</h1>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">Resolve Post-divorce Conflict With Mediation</h2>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Even if you craft the perfect divorce agreement, disputes still arise post-divorce. As circumstances change, conflicts come up. So, what should you do when you and your ex disagree? How might you leverage mediation to resolve those conflicts with less frustration and resentment?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Erik Wheeler is the Founder and Family Mediator at </span><a href="https://www.accordmediationvt.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Accord Mediation</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, a practice out of Burlington, Vermont, that specializes in divorce and post-divorce mediation. Erik uses conflict resolution and divorce mediation to help couples navigate disagreements around parenting schedules, custody and finances. Erik is also the co-creator of </span><a href="https://howtodivorcepeacefully.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Divorce Peacefully</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, a webinar designed to educate divorcing couples about the alternatives to litigation—mediation and collaborative divorce. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Erik joins Katherine to discuss the most common conflicts that come up after a divorce, explaining why it’s crucial to get granular on the details of your parenting agreement. He describes how a mediator can help facilitate difficult discussions and shares his approach to resolving conflicts like who will claim the children on their taxes and how to split your kid’s expenses. Listen in for Erik’s insight on the challenges that come up when one parent relocates and learn how mediation can help you and your ex find solutions that work well for your family’s future.</span></p>
<h3>Topics Covered<span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Erik’s insight on the kinds of conflict that come up after a divorce</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why it’s crucial for divorcing couples to get specific on the details of their parenting agreement</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How the introduction of new partners can exacerbate conflict in divorced couples</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How a mediator helps facilitate difficult discussions by focusing on interests vs. positions</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What makes mediation a better option than litigation in finding solutions that work well for your family</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How to resolve conflicts around who will claim the children on taxes</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The challenges that come up when one parent relocates</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Erik’s approach to conflicts around splitting your kid’s expenses (including tuition)</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why Erik suggests going to mediation as soon as a conflict arises</span></p>
<h3>Connect with Erik Wheeler</h3>
<p><a href="https://www.accordmediationvt.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Accord Mediation</span></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/vermontmediator/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Accord Mediation on Facebook</span></a></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Call (802) 391-4121</span></p>
<h3>Connect with Katherine Miller</h3>
<p><a href="http://understandinginconflict.org/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Center for Understanding Conflict</a></p>
<p><a href="https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Miller Law Group</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Katherine on LinkedIn</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><em>The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce</em> by Katherine Miller</a></p>
<p>Email <a href="mailto:katherine@miller-law.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">katherine@miller-law.com</a></p>
<p>Call (914) 738-7765</p>
<h3>Resources</h3>
<p><a href="https://howtodivorcepeacefully.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Erik’s Divorce Peacefully Webinar</span></a></p>
<p><a href="https://supportpay.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">SupportPay</span></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.2houses.com/en" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">2Houses</span></a></p>
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