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					<description><![CDATA[<p>EP: 164 Raiford Dalton Palmer Why There Are No Winners in Divorce Court Divorce Dialogues · Why There Are No Winners in Divorce Court With Raiford Dalton Palmer Are you dreaming of having your day in divorce court? Of exposing your spouse’s misbehavior to a sympathetic judge? Of winning the case and being rewarded financially?  [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>EP: 164</strong></p>
<h1 style="color: #f16c4f; text-align: center;">Raiford Dalton Palmer</h1>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">Why There Are No Winners in Divorce Court</h2>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Are you dreaming of having your day in divorce court? Of exposing your spouse’s misbehavior to a sympathetic judge? Of winning the case and being rewarded financially? </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Then you are going to be sorely disappointed. The truth is, the court system cares little about your spouse’s wrongdoing. And the cost of litigation (in terms of money and mental health) far outweighs any potential reward.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">So, what do you need to consider before you file for divorce?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Raiford Dalton Palmer, JD, AAML, serves as Managing Shareholder at </span><a href="https://www.stglawfirm.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">STG Divorce Law</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, a top family law firm based in the Chicagoland area. Raiford’s team has expertise in complex divorce cases, specifically those involving business owners and high-net-worth individuals. Raiford is also the author of the bestseller </span><a href="https://www.ijustwantthisdone.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">I Just Want This Done: How Smart, Successful People Get Divorced Without Losing Their Kids, Money and Minds</span></i></a><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">.</span></i></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Raiford joins Katherine to explore the common myth that court is the best way to resolve a divorce and explain why there are no winners in a litigated divorce. He describes a divorce lawyer’s responsibility to provide clients with a sober analysis of potential outcomes and help people set realistic expectations around the divorce process. Listen in for Raiford’s insight on choosing among litigation, mediation and the collaborative process and learn how to bring a business mindset to divorce for the best possible result long term.</span></p>
<h3>Topics Covered<span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What inspired Raiford to write </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">I Just Want This Done</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> as resource for divorce</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why it’s crucial to know your goals and set realistic expectations for the divorce process</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The common myth that court is the best way to resolve a divorce case</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why there are no winners in a litigated divorce</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A divorce lawyer’s responsibility to provide clients with a sober analysis of potential outcomes</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How the justice system was not set up to deal with family issues</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why a spouse’s misbehavior almost never impacts the financial outcome of a divorce</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bringing a business mindset to the divorce process</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why Raiford recommends working with a divorce coach and lawyer</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Choosing among litigation, mediation and the collaborative divorce process</span></p>
<h3>Connect with Raiford Dalton Palmer</h3>
<p><a href="https://www.ijustwantthisdone.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I Just Want This Done</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p>
<p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/stgdivorcelaw" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">STG Divorce Law on Facebook</span></a></p>
<p><a href="https://twitter.com/raifordpalmer" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Raiford on Twitter</span></a></p>
<h3>Connect with Katherine Miller<span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></h3>
<p><a href="http://understandinginconflict.org/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Center for Understanding in Conflict</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p>
<p><a href="https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Miller Law Group</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p>
<p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Katherine on LinkedIn</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> by Katherine Miller</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Email </span><a href="mailto:katherine@miller-law.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">katherine@miller-law.com</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Call (914) 862-7487</span></p>
<h3>Resources</h3>
<p><a href="https://www.ijustwantthisdone.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">I Just Want This Done: How Smart, Successful People Get Divorced Without Losing Their Kids, Money and Minds </span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">by Raiford Dalton Palmer, JD, AAML</span></a></p>
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