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		<title>A Path To Happiness After Midlife Divorce With Diane Burroughs</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Katherine Miller]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Jul 2021 18:42:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>EP: 154 Diane Burroughs A Path To Happiness After Midlife Divorce Divorce Dialogues · A Path To Happiness After Midlife Divorce With Diane BurroughsAfter 24 years of marriage, Diane’s husband &#8211; who also happened to be her colleague as a sitcom writer- left her for another, younger woman. Frustrated and alone, she sought resources to [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>EP: 154</strong></p>
<h1 style="color: #f16c4f; text-align: center;">Diane Burroughs</h1>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">A Path To Happiness After Midlife Divorce</h2>
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<div style="font-size: 10px; color: #cccccc; line-break: anywhere; word-break: normal; overflow: hidden; white-space: nowrap; text-overflow: ellipsis; font-family: Interstate,Lucida Grande,Lucida Sans Unicode,Lucida Sans,Garuda,Verdana,Tahoma,sans-serif; font-weight: 100;"><a style="color: #cccccc; text-decoration: none;" title="Divorce Dialogues" href="https://soundcloud.com/katherinemiller-2" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Divorce Dialogues</a> · <a style="color: #cccccc; text-decoration: none;" title="A Path To Happiness After Midlife Divorce With Diane Burroughs" href="https://soundcloud.com/katherinemiller-2/a-path-to-happiness-after-midlife-divorce-with-diane-burroughs" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">A Path To Happiness After Midlife Divorce With Diane Burroughs</a><span style="font-weight: 400;">After 24 years of marriage, Diane’s husband &#8211; who also happened to be her colleague as a sitcom writer- left her for another, younger woman. Frustrated and alone, she sought resources to ease her pain and found refuge in books and blogs. However, recognizing that very little literature spoke to her directly – as a woman over 50 – Diane began using her unique voice to connect with other women through her blog – Left at 50, and later went on to publish a book titled </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Restarting Your Life When You Are No Longer A Wife</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">. In this podcast explore what doubts and fears keep women physically, psychologically, and emotionally trapped after divorce. Learn how single women after fifty can rebuild their lives on their own terms!</span></div>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Diane Burroughs is the author of: </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Restarting Your Life When You Are No Longer a Wife: One gal’s tale of humor, tears, and hope after being Left at 50 </span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">and owner of the blog leftatfifty.com. Diane helps women facing midlife divorce by learning how to take care of themselves and embrace their new identity as a single woman after fifty. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Diane joins Katherine to uncover strategies for rebuilding a life after divorce in midlife. She introduces the Doubt Monster &#8211; explaining how doubt can creep in and what to do about it. Listen in for Diane’s insights on how to rebound from being lost in “couple identity” and rebuild your individual self to be stronger, happier, more creative, and more action-oriented. </span></p>
<h3>Topics Covered</h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What inspired Diane to write about restarting life after age 50. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What it is like to work with your ex-husband, and how to set appropriate boundaries. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why developing creative outlets is important for self-discovery. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What the Doubt Monster is and how to deal with it. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Diane’s advice for “gray divorcees.”</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How to take care of yourself after a major setback like divorce.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How being a “do-er” can benefit you when going through a major life change.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why taking care of yourself needs to begin now.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How to cope if you have to see your cheating ex-husband every day. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How to get your ex-husband to move out.</span></p>
<h3>Connect with Diane Burroughs</h3>
<p><a href="https://leftat50.com/home/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Leftat50.com blog</span></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0921FQC7T" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Restarting Your Life When You Are No Longer A Wife</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> by Diane Burroughs</span></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/diane-burroughs-18466995/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Diane on LinkedIn</span></a></p>
<h3>Connect with Katherine Miller</h3>
<p><a href="http://understandinginconflict.org/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Center for Understanding Conflict</a></p>
<p><a href="https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Miller Law Group</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Katherine on LinkedIn</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><em>The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce</em> by Katherine Miller</a></p>
<p>Email <a href="mailto:katherine@miller-law.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">katherine@miller-law.com</a></p>
<p>Call (914) 738-776</p>
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		<title>To Heal from Divorce, Move Through Your Grief with Whitney Boole</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Katherine Miller]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2020 11:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>EP: 134 Whitney Boole To Heal from Divorce, Move Through Your Grief Divorce Dialogues · To Heal from Divorce, Move Through Your Grief with Whitney Boole Do you feel stuck in the pain of divorce? Are you having a hard time moving on? Like any other loss, divorce triggers the grief process. And you have [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>EP: 134</strong></p>
<h1 style="color: #f16c4f; text-align: center;">Whitney Boole</h1>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">To Heal from Divorce, Move Through Your Grief</h2>
<p><img loading="lazy" class="border-padding aligncenter wp-image-43" src="http://divorcedialogues.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/DivorceDialogues-Border.png" alt="" width="650" height="20" srcset="https://divorcedialogues.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/DivorceDialogues-Border.png 866w, https://divorcedialogues.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/DivorceDialogues-Border-300x9.png 300w, https://divorcedialogues.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/DivorceDialogues-Border-768x24.png 768w, https://divorcedialogues.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/DivorceDialogues-Border-800x25.png 800w, https://divorcedialogues.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/DivorceDialogues-Border-500x16.png 500w" sizes="(max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px" /><br />
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<div style="font-size: 10px; color: #cccccc; line-break: anywhere; word-break: normal; overflow: hidden; white-space: nowrap; text-overflow: ellipsis; font-family: Interstate,Lucida Grande,Lucida Sans Unicode,Lucida Sans,Garuda,Verdana,Tahoma,sans-serif; font-weight: 100;"><a style="color: #cccccc; text-decoration: none;" title="Divorce Dialogues" href="https://soundcloud.com/katherinemiller-2" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Divorce Dialogues</a> · <a style="color: #cccccc; text-decoration: none;" title="To Heal from Divorce, Move Through Your Grief with Whitney Boole" href="https://soundcloud.com/katherinemiller-2/to-heal-from-divorce-move-through-your-grief-with-whitney-boole" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">To Heal from Divorce, Move Through Your Grief with Whitney Boole</a></div>
<p>Do you feel stuck in the pain of divorce? Are you having a hard time moving on? Like any other loss, divorce triggers the grief process. And you have to move through the stages of grief if you want to heal.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.whitneyboole.com/">Whitney Boole</a> is the licensed marriage and family therapist behind Beach Cities Psychotherapy, a private practice based in Hermosa Beach, California, where she specializes in trauma, codependency, relationship issues, parenting and grief and loss. Whitney is also the author of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/You-Got-This-Healing-Through/dp/1733849009"><em>You Got This: Healing Through Divorce</em></a> and the creator of <a href="https://programs.whitneyboole.com/first-aid/">Heal Through Divorce</a>, a platform designed to empower people through the divorce process and offer them the therapeutic tools for healing.</p>
<p>On this episode of Divorce Dialogue, Whitney joins Katherine to share her own experience of loneliness in divorce, describing the journey of self-discovery that helped her move through the pain and take advantage of the opportunity for transformation. She explains why it’s crucial to lean into self-care during the divorce process and introduces us to breathing techniques for harnessing our fear in challenging circumstances. Listen in for Whitney’s insight on renegotiating relationships with friends and family when a marriage ends and learn how to navigate the stages of grief and heal through divorce.</p>
<h3>Topics Covered</h3>
<p>How Whitney’s experience of loneliness in divorce inspired <em>You Got This</em></p>
<p>Whitney’s insight on renegotiating friendships in the aftermath of divorce</p>
<p>The grief involved when our relationships with our former in-laws change</p>
<p>The danger in dating before you’ve moved through the pain and grief of divorce</p>
<p>Who would benefit most from reading <em>You Got This</em></p>
<p>Whitney’s advice on leaning into self-care as you begin the divorce process</p>
<p>Whitney’s guidance around choosing a divorce lawyer carefully</p>
<p>Using breathing techniques to harness your fear and be less reactive</p>
<p>The opportunity for healing, transformation and growth that comes from divorce</p>
<p>Understanding that your ex’s infidelity is not a reflection on your worth</p>
<h3>Connect with Whitney Boole</h3>
<p><a href="https://programs.whitneyboole.com/first-aid/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Heal Through Divorce</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.whitneyboole.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Whitney’s Website</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/healthroughdivorce/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">You Got This Facebook Group</a></p>
<h3>Connect with Katherine Miller</h3>
<p><a href="http://understandinginconflict.org/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Center for Understanding Conflict</a></p>
<p><a href="https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Miller Law Group</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Katherine on LinkedIn</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><em>The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce</em> by Katherine Miller</a></p>
<p>Email <a href="mailto:katherine@miller-law.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">katherine@miller-law.com</a></p>
<p>Call (914) 738-7765</p>
<h3>Resources</h3>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/You-Got-This-Healing-Through/dp/1733849009" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><em>You Got This: Healing Through Divorce </em>by Whitney Boole</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.whitneyboole.com/new-blog/2020/7/10/divorce-learn-from-my-500-meltdown-so-you-dont-have-one-too" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Whitney’s Blog Post: Learn from My $500 Meltdown So You Don’t Have One Too</a></p>
<p><a href="https://programs.whitneyboole.com/grief/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Whitney’s Conquering Divorce Grief Video Series</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.whitneyboole.com/new-blog/2019/2/14/it-was-not-because-you-werent-enough-the-secret-wounds-of-infidelity" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Whitney’s Blog Post: The Secrets Wounds of Infidelity—It’s Not Because You Weren’t Enough</a></p>
<p><a href="https://programs.whitneyboole.com/mastering-the-talk/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Whitney’s Mastering ‘The Talk’ Program</a></p>
<p><a href="https://programs.whitneyboole.com/thrive/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Whitney’s Healing Through Divorce Transformational Coaching Experience</a></p>
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