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		<title>Rewriting Your Post-Divorce Storyline in 7 Simple Shifts with Deb Purdy</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>EP: 072 Deb Purdy Rewriting Your Post-Divorce Storyline in 7 Simple Shifts It is easy to get attached to your victim story and blame your ex for the fact that your marriage went up in flames. But there is a better way to approach divorce: It is possible to see it as a new beginning, [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>EP: 072</strong></p>
<h1 style="color: #f16c4f; text-align: center;">Deb Purdy</h1>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">Rewriting Your Post-Divorce Storyline in 7 Simple Shifts</h2>
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<p>It is easy to get attached to your victim story and blame your ex for the fact that your marriage went up in flames. But there is a better way to approach divorce: It is possible to see it as a new beginning, an opportunity to learn about yourself and reinvent your life. So, how exactly do you learn to shift your thinking and rewrite your post-divorce storyline?</p>
<p>Deb Purdy is a transformational coach, speaker, author and workshop leader. She is also the creator of My Divorce Recovery Kit and the author of <em><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Something-Gained-Stronger-Smarter-Happier-ebook/dp/B06XJTLCJ3" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Something Gained: 7 Shifts to Be Stronger, Smarter &amp; Happier After Divorce</a></em>. In the book, Deb shares the process she employed to successfully transition out of her own 10-year marriage and eventually create a collaborative co-parenting relationship with her ex-husband.</p>
<p>Today, Deb sits down with Katherine to share the 7 shifts that helped her see divorce as a new beginning and thrive in its aftermath. She walks us through her transformation from feeling like a victim to taking ownership of her life and explains how she used the experience as an opportunity for personal growth. Listen in for Deb’s insight around rewriting your destructive post-divorce storyline and learn how to choose gratitude—and revisit it every day!</p>
<h3>Topics Covered</h3>
<p>Deb’s realization that her divorce could signal a new beginning</p>
<p>Deb’s transformation from feeling victimized to taking ownership</p>
<p>The 7 shifts Deb leveraged to gain strength from her divorce</p>
<ol>
<li>Foundational shift</li>
<li>Shift intentions</li>
<li>Shift your story</li>
<li>Shift view of ex</li>
<li>Shift conversation</li>
<li>Kids are shifters too</li>
<li>Shift on</li>
</ol>
<p>How to use divorce to identify how you show up in relationships</p>
<p>The value in rewriting your destructive post-divorce storyline</p>
<p>The challenge of teaching your friends and family how to support you</p>
<p>Deb’s vision of what she wanted her relationship with her ex to look like</p>
<p>Deb’s insight around setting the intention to learn about yourself</p>
<h3>Connect with Deb Purdy</h3>
<p><a href="https://debpurdy.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Deb’s Website</a></p>
<h3>Connect with Katherine Miller</h3>
<p><a href="http://understandinginconflict.org/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Center for Understanding Conflict</a></p>
<p><a href="https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Miller Law Group</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Katherine on LinkedIn</a></p>
<p><em><a href="https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce</a> by Katherine Miller</em></p>
<p>Email <a href="mailto:katherine@miller-law.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">katherine@miller-law.com</a></p>
<p>Call (914) 738-7765</p>
<h3>Resources</h3>
<p><em><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Something-Gained-Stronger-Smarter-Happier-ebook/dp/B06XJTLCJ3" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Something Gained: 7 Shifts to Be Stronger, Smarter &amp; Happier After Divorce by Deb Purdy</a></em></p>
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