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		<title>Tax Implications in Divorce With Tatiana Tsoir</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>EP: 175 Tatiana Tsoir Tax Implications in Divorce Divorce Dialogues · Tax Implications in Divorce With Tatiana Tsoir “In this world, nothing is certain except death and taxes.”—Benjamin Franklin When you are getting divorced your taxes are probably not the first thing on your mind, but as Benjamin Franklin said in his famous quote taxes [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>EP: 175</strong></p>
<h1 style="color: #f16c4f; text-align: center;">Tatiana Tsoir</h1>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">Tax Implications in Divorce</h2>
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<p>“In this world, nothing is certain except death and taxes.”—Benjamin Franklin</p>
<p>When you are getting divorced your taxes are probably not the first thing on your mind, but as Benjamin Franklin said in his famous quote taxes remain even when a marriage ends. Taxes are never an easy topic to discuss but there are many tax implications divorcing couples should address, especially if children or alimony are involved.</p>
<p>Tatiana Tsoir is an author, speaker, and visionary accountant. For over 15 years she&#8217;s worked with business owners to help them manage their money and their bottom line. Tatiana is also an experienced adviser on all the scenarios impacting the tax-related matters of divorce.</p>
<p>On this episode of the podcast, Tatiana joins Katherine to discuss when to bring up the issue of taxes in your divorce. She discusses the common misunderstanding about the child tax credit, the 529 plan, and strategies for both that can save both parties money.</p>
<p>Listen in for Tatiana&#8217;s insight into underutilized tax strategies for small business owner parents and the number one thing people who are divorcing should think about when they talk about their taxes.</p>
<h3>Topics Covered</h3>
<p>When the issue of taxes should be brought up in divorce</p>
<p>How to structure taxes to support both parents when children are involved</p>
<p>How a business-owning spouse can legally deduct alimony payments</p>
<p>How to employ tax strategies that will save both parties money</p>
<p>The key to making the child tax credit work for you and your spouse</p>
<p>How to avoid misunderstandings around the 529 education plan</p>
<p>Tatiana shares one of the most underutilized tax strategies of small business owner parents</p>
<p>Best practices for using a custodial Roth IRA account</p>
<p>When to start thinking about using tax strategies to increase education funding options</p>
<p>The first thing people who are divorcing should think about when discuss their taxes</p>
<h3>Connect with Tatiana Tsoir</h3>
<p><a href="https://www.linzaadvisors.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Linza Advisors</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/tatianatsoir.author/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Tatiana Tsoir on Instagram</a></p>
<h3>Connect with Katherine Miller<span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></h3>
<p><a href="http://understandinginconflict.org/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Center for Understanding in Conflict</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p>
<p><a href="https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Miller Law Group</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p>
<p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Katherine on LinkedIn</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> by Katherine Miller</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Email </span><a href="mailto:katherine@miller-law.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">katherine@miller-law.com</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Call (914) 862-7487</span></p>
<h3>Resources</h3>
<p><a href="https://www.tatianatsoir.com/dreambold"><em>Dream Bold, Start Smart </em></a><a href="https://www.tatianatsoir.com/dreambold" target="_blank" rel="noopener">by Tatiana Tsoir</a><strong><em><br />
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2021 14:35:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>EP: 155 Brian James Divorcing a Narcissist in Mediation Divorce Dialogues · Divorcing a Narcissist in Mediation With Brian James How do you negotiate with someone who has to be right? If you’re divorcing a narcissist, you know that they simply can’t see things from someone else’s point of view. So, how do you come [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>EP: 155</strong></p>
<h1 style="color: #f16c4f; text-align: center;"><b>Brian James</b></h1>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">Divorcing a Narcissist in Mediation</h2>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How do you negotiate with someone who has to be right? If you’re divorcing a narcissist, you know that they simply can’t see things from someone else’s point of view. So, how do you come to an equitable divorce agreement? And is mediation an appropriate option for divorcing a narcissist?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Brian James is the founder of </span><a href="https://celandassociates.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">CEL &amp; Associates</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, a mediation practice with offices throughout Chicagoland and Southeastern Wisconsin. An experienced divorce and family mediator, Brian spent ten years resolving family conflicts in the criminal justice system before starting CEL &amp; Associates in 2005. Brian is dedicated to helping clients come to an agreement outside the courtroom, creating a win-win situation for all involved in a divorce.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Brian joins Katherine to explain how to know if you’re married to a narcissist, describing what gaslighting looks like and how it makes you feel. He shares his approach to managing a narcissist in the divorce mediation process and discusses how he decides when mediation is the right option for a divorcing couple. Listen in for Brian’s insight on persuading a narcissist to try mediation and learn his top strategies for surviving a high-conflict divorce.</span></p>
<h3>Topics Covered<span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">How to know if you’re married to a narcissist (and why it’s hard to tell early on)</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What it looks like when a narcissist is gaslighting you and how it makes you feel</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How narcissists lack the capacity for empathy</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Brian’s approach to managing a narcissist in the divorce mediation process</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why it’s crucial to come to a detailed, air-tight agreement if you’re divorcing a narcissist</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How Brian determines whether mediation is the right option for a divorcing couple</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Brian’s strategies for surviving divorce mediation with a high-conflict spouse</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The narcissist’s inability to engage in respectful disagreement</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How to persuade your spouse to try divorce mediation rather than go to court</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How attorneys can support the mediation process when a narcissist is involved</span></p>
<h3>Connect with Brian James</h3>
<p><a href="https://celandassociates.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">CEL &amp; Associates</span></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/CELandAssociates" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">CEL on Facebook</span></a></p>
<p><a href="https://twitter.com/IDivorceU" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">CEL on Twitter</span></a></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Call (312) 524-5829</span></p>
<h3>Connect with Katherine Miller</h3>
<p><a href="http://understandinginconflict.org/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Center for Understanding Conflict</a></p>
<p><a href="https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Miller Law Group</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Katherine on LinkedIn</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><em>The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce</em> by Katherine Miller</a></p>
<p>Email <a href="mailto:katherine@miller-law.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">katherine@miller-law.com</a></p>
<p>Call (914) 738-776</p>
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