EP: 132 Nikki DeBartolo & Benjamin Heldfond How to Have a Happy Divorce Divorce Dialogues · How to Have a Happy Divorce with Nikki DeBartolo & Benjamin Heldfond Most divorcing couples are good at the blame game. They cast their former partner as the villain and spend a lot of time stewing in bitterness and […]
How to Start Forgiving Your Ex After a Divorce with Everett Worthington
EP: 113 Everett Worthington How to Start Forgiving Your Ex After a Divorce Forgiveness is hard, especially in the aftermath of a divorce. We don’t want to let our ex ‘get away with’ what they did to hurt us. But most of us realize that carrying resentment, anger and bitterness doesn’t benefit us in any […]
Taking the High Road Through Collaborative Divorce with Monique Honaman
EP: 043 Monique Honaman Taking the High Road Through Collaborative Divorce Reacting with aggression feels good in the moment, powerful even. Perhaps you believe that taking the high road in the divorce process puts you at a disadvantage, making you look weak—as if you’re letting the other person off the hook for their behavior. But […]
Choosing Acceptance When You Can’t Forgive with Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring
EP: 018 Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring Choosing Acceptance When You Can’t Forgive We’re taught that forgiveness is good for us, that it’s what good people do. But if you’ve experienced betrayal or hurt and the responsible party demonstrates little remorse, forgiveness may seem impossible. Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring would argue that acceptance is a viable […]